Tip #4. Guys, even if you're not Mario Lopez the smallest amount of effort to try to dance with your lady will pay off in... Luv :-) and Salsa is the dancing language of love... or so I'm told by my wife who's always trying to get me to dance. Why let the fire burn out when you can take it even further with the gift of salsa lessons. If she knows you don't like to dance you get even more points. And make sure you take the lessons with her... otherwise you may come home to an empty house while she is partying in Cabo with some hombre named Rafael.