Tip #9. Take A Cooking Class Together! Imagine your honey reaching around to hold your spatula while you scoop out your Paella or Cassoulet as learning how to cook Spanish and French food can be one of the most sensual experiences you'll have, the possibilities are endless. The best part: You get to feed each other what you have made! You can take lessons with other couples or opt for a private class for more "hands-on" learning experience.