Is She Using You?
I think most of us have been in a position where we dated someone who's intentions weren't exactly what we had hoped for.
If you're a guy and feel like you may be taken advantage of, you may be right. Relationship expert Georgia Lasure offers these clues that she may be using you:
You're Always Reaching for Your Wallet
When you go out to eat, she makes no attempt to pay -- ever. And when you're at the mall, she begs for you to buy her those shoes she's got her eye on. Worse, she borrows money and doesn't pay it back.
She Ignores You and Flirts Like Crazy
During dinner conversation, she focuses her fawning attention on your guy friends and cuts you off mid-sentence. When you're chatting at the bar, she zones out yet seems totally entranced by the buff guy across the room.
She Puts You Down
She seems to focus on your faults, comparing you to her previous lovers. She reserves her compliments for her friends' beaus, asking you why you don't drive a car like that or buy her expensive jewelry.
She Calls You as a Last Resort
She tells you she's got plans with friends, but calls you when they fizzle. Or... the plans with her girls don't fizzle and she calls you at 2am.
Her Future Plans Don't Include You
When she shares her vision of the future - her ideal career or how many kids she'll have - you're nowhere to be seen in the picture.